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9/30/2021 5:52:00 PM by Weddings + Events by K’Mich
“Has anyone had a bridesman? My best friend and childhood friend is a male he’ll be wearing the same suit as the groom's party but will be there on the day with me and my other two 2 bridesmaids and will be on the photos when I have mine done with my bridesmaids…”
Interesting Factoid you didn’t know about bridesman
What You Need to Know About Having a Bridesman
Selecting your wedding party is an important facet of celebrating your big day with the love of your life. Usually, a bride will have a group of her closest female friends as bridesmaids, and the groom will have a group of groomsmen. However, having a bridesman is more common than you know and is easier to tie into your wedding planning than you think! 
Don’t forget there are a lot of great resources for things to consider when you’re selecting your bridal party.What is a bridesman?Stepping away from traditionA bridesman is a part of the bride's side of the wedding party but is one of your close male friends or a family member. Your bridesman will attend many of the typical bridesmaid events like a bridal shower, and also the bachelorette party. On the day of the wedding, the bridesman will also stand with the bridesmaids and the bride.
Related: Bridal Shower vs. Bachelorette Party: Must I do both? What does a bridesman wear? Be creative with the attireDresses and tuxedos are another key part of a wedding and what your bridesman wears is no exception. There are a few ways to decide on an ensemble, they can match the bridesmaids or coordinate with the groomsmen to name a few options. If your bridesman is going to match the bridesmaids you can opt for a unique colored tuxedo that will harmonize with the dress colors with a tie or bowtie that matches the groomsmen. Another approach is to have the bridesman match the groomsman's tuxedos. If you need some inspiration check out our ideas for bridesmaids’ dresses here.Bridal shower games that are fun to play What about a Man of Honor?Stepping away from traditionSome brides have a maid of honor which is a bridesmaid that is the "lead" on most of the wedding planning activities and helps coordinate the rest of the bridesmaids on the big day. A maid of honor is like a bridesmaid with additional responsibilities and recognition. Another option for a maid of honor is having a "man of honor". This role would act similarly to a maid of honor except it would be a male close friend or relative who would have the expanded responsibilities. The maid or man of honor will often organize events like the bachelorette party or the bridal shower.Bridal party gifts for your bridesmanGender neutral gift ideasAnother thing to coordinate and think about is gifts for your bridal party. You can give a modified version of your bridesmaid gifts to your groomsman to make it more appropriate. Some brides will gift bottles of wine, customized pieces of clothing, drinkware, gift cards, or even an accessory to wear to the wedding. No matter what you'll be sure to find a meaningful gift to show your appreciation for every member of your bridal party.The big dayYour bridal party is easily one of the most crucial parts of your wedding planning experience. These are the individuals you've hand-selected that are going to support you and your future spouse on the journey toward your ultimate commitment. Having a bridesman is just another way to include a guy-friend in your life and show them how much they mean to you, and sharing your special day with the people that mean the most to you is a great way to begin your "Happily Ever After." And don’t forget that you’re not alone, be sure to lean on your reliable wedding planner for any questions you may have along the way!
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9/25/2021 9:20:00 AM by Weddings + Events by K’Mich
Is There a Right or Way To Wear Your Rings?
Rings are a symbol of love and commitment in a romantic relationship. From promise rings to engagement rings and wedding bands, you can give your partner a ring at any stage in your relationship for unique reasons.
What if there is a right or wrong fashion to wear your wedding rings and you don't know it yet?
The history behind wearing wedding rings
“…It was not until about 860 that the Christians used the ring in marriage ceremonies; even then, it was not the simple plain band as we know it. It usually was highly decorated with engraved doves, lyres, or two linked hands. The Church discouraged such rings as ‘heathenish’ and, around the 13th century, wedding and betrothal rings were considerably simplified, and given a more spiritual look which was very aptly expressed by a Bishop when he dubbed it a “symbol of the union of hearts.”(cited)
Wearing of rings dates back to ancient Egypt as a form of worshipping the sun and moon gods. It later became a romantic gesture as the Romans promoted the use of metal rings instead of those made from bones and leather by the Egyptians and the Greeks.
The customary western way to wear wedding rings has many of us wearing them on the left hand's ring finger (the finger before your pinkie finger). The western tradition also espouses stacking the rings with the wedding band below and the engagement ring on top.
This tradition stemmed from the ancient myth that this designated finger has a vein running to the heart, which was believed to keep the lovers' hearts entwined forever by the rings. Thus, the Romans nicknamed it vena amoris, aka vein of love.
Er...not to burst your love bubble, but biology has proven that every finger, including the ring finger, has a venous connection to the heart, although not directly (so technically, whatever finger you wear your ring, your hearts will always be connected).
Related: Link to the Heart - Where is the Vena Amioris
This tradition has become the norm for most people in modern climes. In addition, the ring finger of the left hand is widely accepted as the proper finger to stack your wedding rings on. No doubt this works well for many people, however just as wedding ceremonies differ in various countries, some other religions and traditions share a different view.
For instance, traditional Indian culture considers the left hand unclean,thus permitting wedding bands to be worn only on the right hand. Similarly, it is considered normal to wear rings on the ring finger of the right hand in some other countries like Spain, Portugal, Greece, Norway, Denmark, Russia, India, and Bulgaria. Also, traditional Jewish customs allow the groom to slip the ring on his bride's index finger as it is considered the most prominent finger.
Some cultures also opt to sport the engagement rings and wedding bands on different hands. At the same time, left-handed people would rather wear the rings on their non-dominant hand, the right hand. So again, it's all about varying perspectives.
Which goes first??
While culture and tradition may have set the pace, the proper order to wear your wedding rings is totally up to you. Relieved?
Do you wear your wedding band top or bottom?
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There is actually no universal wedding manual somewhere that makes wearing your wedding rings on your left or right hand proper or not. As already discussed, different cultures have different wedding traditions, including ring placement. Therefore, wedding ring placement is not fundamental to a successful marriage. However, suppose you are planning a traditional wedding peculiar to your culture and roots. In that case, you may want to work closely with your wedding concierge to ensure you get it right culturally.
But as always, your personal preference should be your guiding light.
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9/25/2021 9:01:00 AM by Weddings + Events by K’Mich
If you Plan on Having a Jack and Jill Fundraiser, Here’s What You Need to Know?
“Jack and Jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of water, Jack fell down and broke his crown and and Jill came tumbling after...” 18 Century English Nursery Rhyme If you’ve ever heard these rather ominous lyrics from the classic childhood rhyme, you already know who Jack and Jill are. Stereotypical names that describe a close male and female pair, in recent years many have begun using the terms Jack and Jill to describe bride and groom pairs as they prepare for their big day. Jack and Jill hopefully won’t be breaking any crowns in their wedding preparations, but there are several other challenges bride and groom pairs will often face.
Brides, grooms, and wedding planners alike can tell you that the costs of a wedding rack up quickly. For couples who can’t quite afford the wedding or honeymoon of their dreams, however, there’s still hope.
Jack and Jill co-ed parties, sometimes also known as stag and doe parties, are fundraising rallies that originated in Canada but are beginning to make their way to the rest of the world. They’re usually hosted by the bride and groom and invite all wedding guests or loved ones to come, play games, and celebrate the couple-to-be while also raising money to help pay for the wedding.
If you’re thinking about hosting a Jack and Jill, here are some of our best tips and tricks to get you started!
A cultural event in Canada, popular mostly in Manitoba or Ontario under various names to raise money for a couple for their future wedding plans or honeymoon. Southern Ontario it may be called a stag and doe, or buck and doe, and in Northwestern Ontario it is called a shag. In Manitoba, this is often called a social or wedding social with less fundraising pressure than seen in Ontario. Wiki
Wedding Planning Tips: When is the right time to hold a Jack and Jill wedding fundraiser?
This is how to plan the BEST zinger Jack and Jill party, EVER!Be very creative. Try pairing this idea with any holidays (Halloween, Valentine’s Day, etc) or even one of your favorite TV shows, movies, an era (the 60s, 70s, 80s, etc), books, or games.
** Main rule: Don't invite anyone who is not invited to the wedding.
The top 4 THINGS you NEED to know about a Jack and Jill Fundraiser
- Entertainment: Great activities, fun games, delicious food and drinks
The goal of a Jack and Jill party is to host a rally or fundraiser that generates money for your nuptials. These events are amazing ways to celebrate your love while also helping to raise funds in order to throw an even better wedding! These events are usually casual parties that take on the atmosphere of a backyard barbecue or local fair, though you can choose to dress it up to a more elegant affair if you prefer.
Talk with a wedding planner or expert day-of planner to help you get ideas for how to organize a classy and fun affair within your budget that will make your guests feel like their donations have been worth it. People are more likely to donate if you make it clear you value their time and donation versus if you just throw out random and meaningless gift tokens as a reward.
Whether you’re going for a casino, carnival, or any other fun and exciting theme, be sure to have some amazing entertainment to keep your guests happy (which will make them more likely to donate!)
Plan your Jack and Jill Shower at least ?two to three months ?before the wedding. This will give you access to the cash which you need to pay for any extras that your budget did not allow for. Make sure it does not overlap with any other pre-wedding engagements - bachelorette, bridal shower, rehearsal dinner.
Some couples might feel like because they’re having a Jack and Jill they can’t also have their bachelor/bachelorette parties and showers. That’s not true at all! You can still have all of those events; just make sure to space them out appropriately so they’re not all happening in the same four weeks.
- A Clear Attendance Policy
Make sure to let your guests know that attendance is optional. Poorly planned Jack and Jill events can make your guests feel like you’re shaking them down in order to get even more money out of them and can put a damper on your excitement as you plan for your special day.
Work to emphasize that while you’d love for everyone invited to attend, attendance or participation is not mandatory or required at all. This way, you’ll know that everyone who comes truly wants to celebrate and support you, making your day even better!
Publicize what your guests’ donations will go toward. This could be toward your registry which you already set up or your honeymoon. Making it clear where exactly your funds will be spent makes it easier for guests to want to contribute and helps set a clear goal that you can reach. So, consider setting up a visual aid to track how much money you’ve raised throughout the night.Will a Jack and Jill Party Work for Your Wedding Plans?Final thoughtWhen it comes to paying for your wedding, couples don’t have to shoulder this burden all on their own. Incorporating a fun tradition like a Jack and Jill party can be a creative way to involve all your loved ones in your special day and to relieve some of the stress of financing your celebration.
Our expert wedding planners can guide you through planning the best Jack and Jill party ever and strategize with you on how to use those funds to develop the wedding of your dreams, so contact us today to get started on making your special day a reality!
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10/21/2020 7:18:00 AM by Weddings + Events by K’Mich
THE TOP Favorite 3 must-haves for your Pandemic Beauty Bag
Our beauty routine is changing, and so are our beauty bags. Now that we are required to wear masks, the focus is on our eyes instead of our entire face. Lately, the focus is on filling in those eyebrows and lengthening those lashes and not worrying about applying lipstick, maybe a light gloss to keep the lips hydrated. So, here are a few of my top three must-haves- BROW, CONCEALER, MASCARA to achieve your desired look.
BROW ENHANCERS Your brows are the most expressive way you communicate with others. Therefore taking a few minutes to perfect our most prominent beauty feature will put our best face forward to all the people we encounter. Here are a few brow products that should be in your beauty bag.
Brow pencils, pomades, and tinted brow gels are all products that add dimension and color to our brows.
BROW PENCILS or POMADES
Brow pencils and pomades are applied to the skin, so be careful to choose a color that balances the brow hair. Brow pencils can be used to create the illusion of a full brow. This is done by adding small stokes within the sparse spaces of your natural brow.
Pomades are a more solid product that is applied directly to the skin. They create a more sculpted brow, that is more stylized and arched. This product's density can be used to hide natural brow hairs.
TINTED AND CLEAR BROW GELS
Tinted and Clear Brow Gels are the perfect companions to brow pencils and pomades, by providing a natural micro bladed appearance by separating and lifting the hairs in the brow. Tinted brow gels are also great to achieve a natural non-permanent coloring to brows that have begun to grey. This is possible because these products are applied directly to the hairs of the brow.
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All of these products are also good for matching a change in hair color and mood. Remember your brows convey a bevy of emotions, so express your personality.
CONCEALER & CORRECTORS
Concealers are a fantastic way to multitask between perfection for the brow and spot coverage while wearing your mask.
Since our beauty is concentrated above our masks, concealer is great to cover small imperfections without using multiple products. Concealers are usually flesh-toned in color, to mimic all-natural skin tones.
Correctors add perfection to the natural look of concealers, by neutralizing redness, shallowness, and hyperpigmentation. Correctors can be placed on top or underneath concealers, depending on the depth of skin tone to be corrected.
Follow spot coverage with your concealer to shaping the brows. To achieve a natural perfect brow, use a slightly lighter concealer color directly under the arch of the brow, followed by your natural concealer under the front of the brow closest to the nose and above the brow. Sculpting the brow with concealer is easy to achieve with a concealer brush. Once the concealer is applied, then blend the product into your skin tone.
MASCARA The eyes are the windows of our beauty and must be adorned with long lush lashes. Mascara is the easiest way to make your eyes sparkle while maintaining a fresh natural look. Choose a mascara according to how you would like your lashes to appear. The brush in your mascara is just as important as the mascara formulation. Try different types of brushes and formulas until you find the perfect lash look.
To make the eyes seem larger and brighter first lighten any tones on the eyelids closest to the lash line with your concealer. Blend upwards from the lash line on the eyelids so that you avoid creasing. Then apply light layers of mascara until you reach your desired look.
Mask Hacks: If you must wear full makeup, here’s what we found and very helpful. Find these on Etsy, Walmart, and Amazon. 1. Cheek Sheets - Breathable mask liners: It protects your makeup from messing up your masks. 2. Reusable Silicone Face Guard - This fits over your face your mask goes on top. Very comfortable. Comes in three sizes - S, M, L 3. Ear Guard - Place this behind your neck, then place strings on each side instead of your ears. More space to breathe and no smudges. Paper clips can be used to get the same effect.
More PRO TIP: If you are a little unsure of the procedure for applying your beauty products, I recommend you : 1) Apply your brow products
2) Spot cover and correct and perfect your brow application
3) Choose your favorite mascara
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10/20/2020 3:22:00 PM by Weddings + Events by K’Mich
Groom & Groomsmen Fashion Tip
Though many eyes will be fixed on the bride at weddings, the truth is the groom’s appearance is just as important. Grooms often work for months to make sure they have the perfect wedding attire, planning out everything from cufflinks down to their socks!
Traditionally, groomsmen have worked to match the groom and complement the bridesmaid they’re paired with, but in recent years more couples have begun exploring mismatched and unique wedding looks. Should your groomsmen always have to match the groom?
The answer is absolutely not. Our experienced wedding planners know that mismatched groomsmen are trendy, fashion-forward, and personal, meaning they’re a great solution for couples looking to put their own unique touch on their day and celebrate the individuality of all their loved ones as well. Mismatched Groom and Groomsmen: How to Get it Right
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6 Ways to Mismatch Your Groomsmen in Style
Mimic, Don’t Mirror the Groom
One great way to incorporate mismatched yet cohesive style elements for your groomsmen is to make sure their look still has some similar elements to the groom. You want to mimic him to ensure that you look complementary to each other, but without copying his look exactly. One good way to do this is to all wear the same type of outfit, whether it’s a tux or a suit. Play with Different Colors
If your wedding colors are varied, our expert wedding planners suggest trying out different color suits among your groomsmen. You can play with different shades of navy, grey, or neutral tones like beige or white until you find a mismatched groomsman combination that’s both aesthetic and individualized to your tastes.
Stay Flattering and Fresh
Not every groomsman will have the same body shape. One good way to pick good-looking yet individualized groomsmen looks is to let each man pick out a suit or jacket shape that will look best on him. This way you’ll still get to create that chic mismatched look without going out of your way to pick out entirely independent looks.
Accessorize, Accessorize!
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The first step to a good look is determining what each groom or groomsman wants their look to be. Our talented wedding day planners have put together a great style outline for you. Once you’ve picked out individual styles, you can select accessories, like ties or cufflinks, that will help your groom and his groomsmen stand out.
Remember the Boutonnieres
This is another good way to mix and match elements of your groomsmen’s looks. If you want to create flashes of mismatched individuality but still prefer a cohesive suit look, consider creating different styles of boutonnieres with different flowers, non-floral ideas, and colors. This will help your groomsmen stand out from the crowd but blend in with your groom!
Make the Groom the Focal Point
If you’re playing around with different styles of dress for the groom, you’re going to want to make sure to keep the groom the focal point no matter what. Consider putting him in a standout color that’s either light or dark and then having your groomsmen pick contrasting shades. Now you still get to enjoy a mismatched effect while preserving your groom as the star of the show.
Do The Groom & Groomsmen Have To Match?
Final thought Planning your perfect wedding day includes making style decisions that make you and your groomsmen the happiest. Mismatching groomsmen is a fun new trend that allows your groomsmen’s individual personalities to stand out while catering to your overall wedding atmosphere. Our expert day-of planners and wedding event staff can help you design the perfect look for each of your groomsmen that helps them stand out and complement the happy couple in every way.
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